Mental Health Matters: Supporting Emotional Wellbeing and Recovery

Times are tough. Things are quite precarious. We all face the difficulties of economic and social instability. We are just beginning to wrap our brains around the toll the Covid pandemic has taken on our world. As a result, the topic of mental health has become increasingly more prevalent. Social media platforms highlight the positive aspects of life, yet many people are experiencing anxiety, depression and trauma. With the rise of mental health issues around the world, it is important for each individual and governments to now prioritize emotional wellbeing and recovery.

The pressures of contemporary life can make it difficult for individuals to process their feelings and emotions. This can result in the abundance of distraction available online, including social media, streaming platforms, video games, pornography, the news or even just surfing the internet aimlessly. While these activities can provide entertainment and a temporary distraction, they also have the potential to severely exacerbate mental health issues. Therefore, it is even more important now than ever, for individuals to dedicate time to self-reflection, meditation, mindfulness, and self-care practices that allow them to address and understand their emotional needs fully. (Tomorrow I will be sending out a post on how to engage in self-care.)

One major aspect of emotional wellbeing is dealing with trauma and its consequences, such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). In my work with clients, PTSD has been the main mental illness causing condition I have come across. We all deal with PTSD in some form now as a result of the Covid pandemic. Individuals can recover from traumas by seeking professional help, attending support groups, and practicing mindfulness while meditating, yoga, or through journaling. Trauma healing requires time and patience, but individuals do have the power to feel better through the support of loved ones, seeking therapy, and engaging in self-care routines.

Mental health awareness and support are essential not only for the individual affected but also for the people around them. While introverted individuals enjoy their time alone, they still need to prioritize social connections in their lives and form healthy relationships. Similarly, society needs to eliminate the stigma around anxiety and depression once and for all. It is not uncommon at all for individuals to feel overwhelmed, depressed and anxious- especially considering the challenges that the world throws our way these days.

As I wrote about in my earlier essay on gaslighting, it also is important to establish a conversation around gaslighting awareness and the importance of seeking professional help. Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. It is a significant root cause of mental health issues and anxiety. Thus everyone must call out gaslighters and develop healthier coping mechanisms such as therapy, self-care, and mindfulness, or just simply seeking the support of friends and family.

Mental health matters now more than ever and should be a priority in an individual's life. With the right support from friends, family, and mental health practitioners, individuals can take care of their emotional wellbeing and achieve full recovery from traumas or mental health disorders. While it may be a long journey, taking the first step is crucial, whether that's seeking therapy, meditating, relaxing more (without distractions), going for walks, eating better or journaling to process and regulate emotions. The key takeaway is for individuals to make small changes in their daily lives and hold themselves accountable for their emotional wellbeing. With support and consistency we can recover from mental illness and live a more mentally healthy (stable) life.

If you would like to begin working on your mental health, please feel free to schedule a session with me.

Destructive Logic and Mental Health

Destructive logic is something that individuals often engage in without knowing it. It can have a significant impact on mental health. Destructive logic is a cycle of negative thoughts and beliefs that can make individuals feel helpless and trapped. Destructive logic is characterized by a focus on negative experiences, events, and feelings, and an inability to see any positive aspects or outcomes (negative self-talk). The daily use of destructive logic can lead to a variety of mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, and even suicidal ideation.

Destructive logic can often feel like the norm. Negative thoughts can be so pervasive that they begin to feel like facts. When this takes over, individuals may start to believe that they have no control over their circumstances. This can lead to a sense of hopelessness, meaninglessness and despair, which will further exacerbate mental health issues.

Someone who has experienced one or many traumatic events, may engage in destructive logic without knowing it. They may have developed the belief that they will never be able to recover from the trauma. They may focus on the negative aspects of the event, such as the hurt and fear they experienced, and overlook any positive outcomes or personal growth that may have resulted from the experience. This often will lead a person to feelings of helplessness, isolation, nihilism and major depression.

Destructive logic can effect how individuals interpret and respond to situations. It can result in a tendency to catastrophize, where individuals assume the worst-case scenario will always occur. If we catastrophize often, this may cause a person to live a life filled with chronic anxiety, panic attacks, depression and poor decision making about their life. Catastrophizing is a common thing people do when they live with unresolved trauma.

Mental health professionals often use cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to help individuals with destructive thinking patterns. CBT helps individuals learn to identify and challenge these negative thoughts, replacing them with more positive ones. This can help individuals to see the world in a less negative light, improve their coping skills, and develop more positive self-talk, ultimately improving their mental health.

Mindfulness is an additional way to help those who deal with destructive logic. By becoming more aware of our thought patterns we can gain more control over navigating our attention into the present moment when our thoughts become too negative. By being present in the here and right now, we can reduce the negative effects that destructive logic can have upon our lives. 

Destructive logic can have a profound impact on our mental health. In my work as a mental health counselor, I see how destructive logic causes individuals to hold negative beliefs, feelings of hopelessness, and a lack of control over their circumstances. This often leads people into major depression. But this way of thinking and feeling can be managed and minimized. Identifying and challenging these negative thoughts through counseling, support, journaling, meditation and other forms of self-care can be incredibly helpful in overcoming destructive logic and its impact on our mental health.

Be Here Now

In our fast-paced world filled with constant distractions and stressors, it can be challenging to stay present and focused in the moment. It's easy to get caught up in worries about the future, regrets about the past or simply to let our minds wander off to anything and everything except for what is happening right in front of us.

In the midst of this, there is a powerful idea that has gained popularity over the past several decades: "Be here now." This simple phrase encapsulates the idea that the present moment is all we have, and that we should focus our attention and energy on being fully present in the here and now. I don’t know about you but I’ve never been to the future or the past- but the present moment is always right where I am.

At its core, the concept of "Be here now" is about mindfulness. Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention, on purpose, to the present moment without judgment. It involves being fully engaged with our current experience, whether that's watching a sunset, having a conversation, driving in traffic or noticing the various physical sensations in our body.

One of the benefits of mindfulness is that it can help us to reduce stress and anxiety. I like to think of mindfulness as natural anxiety medication. When we're focused on the present moment, we're not worrying about the future or dwelling on the past. We're simply experiencing what is happening right now. That’s it. This can be incredibly calming and grounding, especially in moments where we feel overwhelmed or anxious.

In addition to reducing stress, mindfulness can also help us to be more productive and effective in our daily lives. When we're focused on the present moment, we're less likely to be distracted by other things. We're able to fully engage with the task at hand, whether that's work, driving, learning or engaging in a hobby.

Of course, being present in the moment is easier said than done. Our minds are wired to constantly search for new experiences and stimulation, and it can be difficult to resist the urge to check our phones, scroll through social media or think about anything other than what's happening right now.

But mindfulness is a skill that can be developed with practice. There are many different techniques and exercises that can help us to cultivate mindfulness, from simply becoming aware of your breathing when you are walking, showering, working or driving to more structured meditations. Whatever method you choose, the key is to make a commitment to being present in the moment and to intentionally direct your attention to what's happening right here and right now. Can you feel your foot on the ground?

The idea of "Be here now" is one that I have found helpful ever since reading Ram Dass’s book by the same title. It is a simple but powerful concept that can help us to live more fulfilling and mindful lives. By focusing our attention on the present moment and intentionally practicing mindfulness, we can reduce stress, improve productivity, combat anxiety and depression and bring a sense of mental health to our lives.